rain does not fall on one roof alone

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Dictionary meaning

a Cameroonian proverb expressing the universality of suffering, hardship, and the trials of life — no family, community, or people is uniquely targeted by misfortune; rain, the defining metaphor of both abundance and hardship across sub-Saharan agricultural societies, falls without discrimination across the entire landscape; the proverb counsels against the self-pity or resentment that comes from believing one's own difficulties are singular and unshared, and instead invites solidarity with others who are enduring the same rain; it is a call to empathy, mutual aid, and the communal processing of collective grief, functioning as a cultural technology for maintaining social cohesion under shared adversity