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have your cake and eat it

HAV yor KAYK and EET it

hæv jɔːr keɪk ænd iːt ɪt

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Syllable breakdown

haveyourcakeandeatit

Dictionary meaning

To enjoy two desirable but mutually exclusive things simultaneously.

Examples

  • You can't demand total flexibility and also complain about lack of structure—you can't have your cake and eat it.

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