break the ice

Syllable breakdown

Dictionary meaning

to do or say something to relieve tension, awkwardness, or social stiffness at the beginning of a meeting, gathering, or new relationship, making it easier for people to interact comfortably; the metaphor derives from the historical practice of sending small vessels called ice-breakers ahead of ships to clear frozen waterways and allow passage; breaking the ice in a social setting similarly clears the way for warmer, more open communication